Why Don’t They Like Me?
The worst thing you can do in life is let other people determine your personal happiness and self worth on the ideas and reactions of those around you. When you are insecure and rely on other people to determine your happiness will only bring misery to your life. It isn’t your job to make people like you by posing or being someone you are not, instead be the person that God meant you to be and people will seek you out because you are one of the few people who is being real in a fake world.
What Will They Think?
When you worry what others think about you, really you’re just judging yourself. Most of the time though, you have to remember that most people these days are very selfish in inconsiderate so they don’t really care in the first place. And regardless of what people think, it’s up to you to control what you can, and not worry about things you can’t control. Do what makes you happy and don’t worry about what others think about you.
Instead of focusing on what is missing in your life, look at where you have come from. Most of take for granted all the things we have accomplished in life and think we always need more and not appreciate what we already have or what we could become. Instead of wanting more in your life and asking what is missing that I am not happy, take a moment to reflect on life and notice what you have, your health, your friends and your life. These are all things to be happy about.
What If I’m Not Good Enough?
If you tell yourself that you’re not good enough for something, then you won’t be good enough. Most of the time we psych ourselves out and don’t recognize our true potentials with the talents and gifts we hold. To life a life of what ifs, is not a life worth living. If all the successful people in life asked them this question, where would be? If Thomas Edison said, “What if I’m not good enough to build the light bulb,” we would still be sitting in the dark. And besides you cant look at failure as a bad thing, all great people failed millions of times, it’s what you do when you fail that really matters.
How Can I Possibly Move On?
It’s called your past for a reason. Life is built on learning from your past
but inevitably letting it go and learning from your mistakes to make the present better. Things are continually changing and if you spend most of your time reflecting on your past, then you are going to be left behind – it’s call living in the present for a reason. Life is but a moment, and when the moment is gone it’s all over, don’t waste your time in the past; take chances, make mistakes and continue to learn something new everyday.
No successful person has ever asked the question, “Why me,” instead the ask the question, “Why not me!” If you tell yourself you don’t deserve a good life, then you will never be someone successful, but if every day you wake up and tell yourself that you are going to live a great life then later in life you will look back on life, and be like what a story I could tell.